Here are some tips for a sexy summer thanks to Canadian Sex and relationship expert, and author of My Messy bedroom columns, Josey Vogels.
Try a toy
Buy a vibrator, drip hot wax on your partner while dressed like a naughty nurse. I don’t care what it is, as long as it’s outside your usual sexual limits! Even have sex outside the bedroom if that’s a little bit different for you. Pushing the limits will bust the routine, liven up your sex life and keep you wanting more! Need help? The We-Vibe® 3 is designed for mutual enjoyment and perfect for sex toy first-timers. It can take you out of your sexual rut and give you both a little extra pleasure on the way.
Follow your instincts.
New summer and holiday romances are common this time of year He only calls for a booty-call. She says she just needs time. It’s easy to overlook bad behaviour when you’re falling for someone and desperately want things to work out, but save yourself the tearful, angry, "in hindsight, I should have seen the signs" conversations with your friends and follow your instincts. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
About your sexual needs, desires and frustrations (in a loving and kind way, of course). Encourage your partner to do the same. Start a weekly sexual revelation ritual: You show me one thing you like or don’t like and I’ll show you mine.
Do something new.
Do something sexually for your partner he or she is into, that maybe you’re not. Not only does indulging your partner make them feel special and loved, you may surprise yourself and discover things you never knew you’d get into. And bonus, your partner will be more likely to indulge you in some of your own personal preferences.
Remember quality over quantity.
Stop reading all those surveys that make you think everyone else is having way more sex than you are. Who cares if Mr. and Mrs. Joe Blogs are doing it seven times a week and twice on Sunday. One, they’re probably lying, and two, it’s like looking at models in a fashion magazine: you’ll never feel adequate. Are you two happy with your frequency? The quality? If you’re not, talk about it and figure something out. If you are, I don’t care how often you’re doing it, and neither should you.
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